tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7450153873867495397.post4077297926204699866..comments2023-05-18T06:12:08.919-04:00Comments on The Cat Widow: Or Better Yet, Mark as SpamArielle Arbushites, MSW, LSWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847522475111778225noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7450153873867495397.post-6703384948886224632014-09-19T17:49:47.655-04:002014-09-19T17:49:47.655-04:00That is an utterly disgusting, vile, and ignorant ...That is an utterly disgusting, vile, and ignorant comment! People who leave comments like that aren't even thinking of you they just feel they are being clever in some way. They are not even worthy of acknowledging. Take care of you and if possible forget one nasty person in a whole group of people who wish you nothing but good things. Oceans of love XOXStephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15587659318928026379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7450153873867495397.post-56335126058629114072014-09-18T19:36:27.900-04:002014-09-18T19:36:27.900-04:00Angelique, thank you. I am so sad for your own los...Angelique, thank you. I am so sad for your own loss and appreciate you standing in solidarity with me on this. As you said about your husband, I truly believe that Rick felt I would be better off without him. He felt he was doing me a favor. Such difficult things we must deal with, you and me. We will prevail. Thank you for reading. I'll be thinking of you...Arielle Arbushites, MSW, LSWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16847522475111778225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7450153873867495397.post-68126184376961024692014-09-16T22:52:17.273-04:002014-09-16T22:52:17.273-04:00Arielle,
I am so sorry that someone would try to...Arielle, <br /><br />I am so sorry that someone would try to hurt you this way. It is so awful, and I will never understand why anyone would do that. I guess there are truly just some hateful people out there. <br /><br />Lately, I've been thinking about how people believe suicide is selfish. I used to believe that myself, until my own husband took his life 40 days ago. Last week, someone Angeliquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07882034662893580306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7450153873867495397.post-31967623941464949932014-09-15T13:15:31.421-04:002014-09-15T13:15:31.421-04:00Suicide awareness and prevention among the general...Suicide awareness and prevention among the general public. It's not that suicidal individuals won't think of the loved ones they will be leaving behind, it's that they CANT. In that moment their resources for coping with unimaginable pain are overpowered by that pain and suicide becomes their only option (that they can see). I think that part of the problem is that suicidal Samhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15095955724438192484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7450153873867495397.post-20591226842179543072014-09-15T13:06:31.152-04:002014-09-15T13:06:31.152-04:00Suicide and suicidal thinking is still so stigmati...Suicide and suicidal thinking is still so stigmatized and so misunderstood. The comment was hateful and completely inappropriate, but I think it also points to the larger issue of Samhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15095955724438192484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7450153873867495397.post-60146996921424205092014-09-15T12:58:53.608-04:002014-09-15T12:58:53.608-04:00If you have ever had the displeasure of reading co...If you have ever had the displeasure of reading comments on news articles on sites like Yahoo, you would know that there are quite a few of these kinds of useless a-holes out there. Best just to ignore them as they serve no purpose in your life or their life for that matter. <br /><br />I would bet a decent sum of money that they are acting out at you because they are still angry over the loss ofRogerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14073777396641375379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7450153873867495397.post-67456170836069626222014-09-15T10:58:30.149-04:002014-09-15T10:58:30.149-04:00[Arielle, I apologize for my previous comment. I k...[Arielle, I apologize for my previous comment. I know it may be off-topic, so if it bothers you, delete it as well, no problem. The fact is that when I read comments like the one written by the Anonymous, I get very angry. I think the only people who deserve to burn in hell – if you believe it exists – are the ones who enjoy inflicting pain to the others.]V.https://twitter.com/V_Titaniumnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7450153873867495397.post-37267722144304852732014-09-15T10:56:35.729-04:002014-09-15T10:56:35.729-04:00The words I’m going to write are not addressed to ...The words I’m going to write are not addressed to you, Arielle. They are for the Anonymous who left the nasty comment.<br /><br /><br />@ Anonymus - I'm not here to defend Arielle - who has already answered with this post, and therefore she doesn’t have any need to be defended - so I apologize for the intrusion in a debate that doesn’t concern me directly, but freedom of speech to freedom of V.https://twitter.com/V_Titaniumnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7450153873867495397.post-80180420691488110912014-09-15T00:49:39.359-04:002014-09-15T00:49:39.359-04:00I agree that this person is hateful, and also incr...I agree that this person is hateful, and also incredibly sad. To go out of one's way to say something so cruel to someone already suffering...I can't imagine what kind of twisted, cold heart could think to do such a thing. I will never understand people who seem to enjoy inflicting pain.<br /><br />But remember, this person is the exception, crowded out and shouted down by all the good Alisonhttp://twitter.com/alisonrose711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7450153873867495397.post-89653907689416383722014-09-14T22:26:09.774-04:002014-09-14T22:26:09.774-04:00So glad to see you keeping perspective when someth...So glad to see you keeping perspective when something so hateful shows up on your blog. Your response speaks testaments to your growth over the last couple months. That person's comments speak more about him/her than about you or Rick. Hoping it is the last hurtful comment you read on here. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com