Widow's Bill of Rights

Just making it up as I go... creating some rights... trying to empower myself...

1. I have the right to cry - whenever, wherever. 
2. I have the right to follow my own values and standards.
3. I have the right to take my time.
4. I have the right to make my own decisions.
5. I have the right to express my emotions.
6. I have the right to change my mind.
7. I have the right to ask for what I need.
8. I have the right to adventure and healing, especially when the two go together.
9. I have the right to make mistakes.
10. I have the right to feel afraid.
11. I have the right to feel angry at my position.
12. I have the right to be happy.